About My BDSM & Kink Instruction

When I first came into the lifestyle, I was fortunate to meet many people that mentored me and taught me about many things. I spent many years learning all I could about the BDSM lifestyle and all that it encompasses and attended dozens of kink conferences that had classes, lectures & demos on various subjects. Along the way I have learned and experienced a great deal and one of my favorite ways to “give back” to my community is to share that knowledge with others.

Personalized Instruction for individuals & couples

I very much enjoy working with individuals one on one and with bonded couples that seek personalized guidance & coaching to meet their specific needs and desires. Obviously, with a couple that can very easily be accomplished as I give dominant training to one partner while the other partner receives from them.

I will also occasionally consider bottoming professionally for the purpose of helping a new dominant to develop his or her topping skills. These sessions must be heavily negotiated and many restrictions apply.

Why seek professional training with a Dominant?

Perhaps you are brand new to or even just curious about the scene and not sure where to begin. Or perhaps you have recently discovered that your partner has kinky fantasies or desires and wish to understand or explore them in a safe, nurturing yet professional environment.

By engaging a skilled & knowledgeable professional you will receive quality and trustworthy training from someone that really knows what they are doing. I am not just some bit of “eye candy with a whip”. I have been living this lifestyle personally, for over 20 years and BDSM is not just what I “do” it is truly a large part of what makes me who I am.

Some of the things you may want guidance in initially are:

• Understanding your or your partners fetish or “kink”
• Realizing that you are not alone and there are others that share your desires & needs as well as your fears & concerns
• Basic BDSM safety and instruction in things like bondage, flogging and much more
• Learning to negotiate/communicate to meet both partners needs.

As you move further into the BDSM lifestyle you may wish to learn about:

• Shopping for Toys on any budget
• How to meet other lifestyle couples & individuals
• Further instruction and training on specific scene activities
• Dealing with boredom and/or burn out in the lifestyle