Ughhh. So this Covid-19 thing is definitely NOT clearing up as quickly as anyone would like and quarantining is wearing Just a little Bit Freaking Thin right about now!! LOL! I saw a vid that amused me where day one was – “Oh yeah! happy time being out of the office and home!” and then as the days wear on and on and on, it got like – “Just kill me now before I lose my damn mind”. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1L0yjF_-hQQ
I am definitely known for being a bit of a ‘Type A’, need to keep busy or I get stir crazy, kind of gal and sadly my concert addiction is on a serious hold right now! Boo freaking hiss!! Lucky for boyfriend, I have been enjoying some of the nicer days to work and sweat out in my garden, so I have not had to kill him from being cooped up together too much yet.
I am always happy when I get to blow off some steam digging and planting and making my little Eden a bit prettier and I have made some cool progress this year. Check the before and after pics in the gallery below.
Before… 
After… 
But now I am a bit stuck since there’s no extra cash in the “mad money” budget for non essential projects like hardscaping stones, and flowers. So what is a Domme to do?
It is still really not safe to just get back to business as usual, that’s for sure. I was considering taking a few in person sessions with people I have seen before and trust – with the understanding that we would both wear masks, wash hands properly, and take all possible precautions and safety protocols before and during our playtime. But truth be told that still makes me pretty nervous. It is just not worth possibly dying. You know?
Which brings me to the point that I have to seriously reconsider other options that I had not really been crazy about in the past. Most people who have played with me in person know that I am a very “Hands on”, touchy-feely sensual Domme.
I LOVE wrapping you tightly into bondage and watching you struggle! Mmmmmm!! Running my nails across your skin and feeling the goosebumps I leave as I go… maybe whispering into your ear all my evil plans for you… so you feel my hot breath on your neck and I feel you squirm beside me. But I am more kinesthetic than verbal which means many of the things I enjoy most do not easily lend themselves to long distance play modes such as phone and webcam sessions. And yet… social distancing seems here to stay for awhile.
So, yeah. It’s time to explore these other options and to be honest I feel a little out of my element, but I like a challenge now and then. Maybe you can tell me what you loved most about our last session, or we can chat about what you want to do in our next live in person encounter. If you’ve not met me before perhaps you could share a favorite secret fantasy, or I could perhaps give you a virtual tour of the play space and answer any questions you may have about what a session with me might entail. Let’s play with some ideas and have some kinky fun!
I still have a NiteFlirt account but I am also open to simply setting up a time to chat on the phone or cam and have you send a tribute through Paypal, Amazon gift card or Zelle for a block of time. Let me know via email if this appeals to you and we can work out details.
I have also just today started playing with an app that allows me to track a submissive’s obedience to my rules and reward or punish them. Check out “Obedience: BDSM Habit Tracker” in your app store. I am going to experiment with it with a hand full of my fave boys before I go further with it, but I think it has fabulous potential for being a fun way to have some kinky fun at a distance!
I am thinking for each of my playmates ideally I’d like to have a few “Healthy Habits” like: exercise, sleep 7 hours a night, drink water, eat healthy meals, do yoga to increase your flexibility for me. <grin> Things that you KNOW you should do but have a hard time sticking with. As well as some “Mistress Chores” like: abstain from wanking, wear sexy panties under your normal clothes, wear a collar to bed, send me a daily journal entry, practice slave positions, or particular bondage pic you love. The possibilities are endless and each person will have assist in the negotiating of the habits so that we can pick things that are really worthwhile to you. Each of the assignments help accrue “Good Boy or Bad Boy” points the can lead to rewards or punishments. Yeah, I am liking this a lot – lol!
Anyway – that’s where I am at today – I sincerely hope you and your loved ones are all staying safe and healthy through these difficult times. Lots of love and hope to see you soon!
