So I haven’t been posting much lately, sorry about that. I wish I could say that it’s because I am just so crazy busy playing with lovely people like you that I do not have the time to do so but sadly, that is not the case. I am truly looking forward to having a Covid vaccine become widely available next spring, but in the meantime I am finding other ways to try to keep busy.

It’s been really hard trying to stay safe and healthy this year but basically being out of work for most of it, not just from a financial stand point, which of course sucks but I just miss people – I really LOVE what I do and I miss you guys! (sad face).

I have been toying with the idea of doing more phone or webcam sessions but I guess I lack enthusiasm for the idea since I am such a tactile person. I really LOVE physical, in person play, and there is just nothing like actually touching, tying, teasing and tormenting my playthings.

I am open to invitations from anyone out there would like to chat on the phone or Skype / Zoom for a bit. Maybe I can talk to you about how naughty you have been and how much I would love to take you over Santa Suze’s knee for a bit. I could even just offer guided tours of the dungeon if you’d like to help you see what may be in store for you in the future! Shoot me an email at Mistress@SxySadist.com and tell me what is on your holiday wish list and if you’re in a giving spirit as well, here is my wishlist! 🙂

One of the ways I managed to keep busy in the fall included a wedding! Yes, it finally happened! After 13 years of faithful service to me, the timing was finally right to let my number one “put a ring on it”. We had wanted to hold a medium-sized gathering at a state park near us in CT but Covid made that impossible, so we rented a cabin for 5 days on the water in Lake George and held our wedding on the grounds. We did it on 10/10/2020, which seemed like an auspicious date to us.

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It was a very small affair, the only people there were myself, Brett, Myke, (a really dear friend of mine), his daughter and her boyfriend. Plus the officiant and the photographer. The weather threatened to pour all day but held off until shortly after the “big event”.

I wish I could share more pics but it’s not appropriate to include any of my other guests here. 🙂 I was so proud of my girl though, she looked so beautiful as my “Maid of Honour”. She and I went and got our hair done together at a salon that morning and delighted in getting all “dolled up”. Then she wore a dress she had intended to wear for a prom that didn’t happen this year, (poor kid) and she looked so beautiful. Her sweet bf’s jaw dropped when he saw her and he cleaned up pretty well too for the day. Oh and OMG – My Myke even thought about combing his hair for the occasion, but it had been used to doing it’s own thing for so long nothing short of industrial strength hair gel would have tamed it. Of course, my Brett looked handsome as always and I was so grateful to my friend and neighbor Carmen for her help with not only my dress but the MOH’s too.

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We had a really lovely time up in the Lake George area as usual. Brett and I actually got to go for walks in the spectacular fall foliage every day, and we even made it out onto the water in our kayaks one day as well. I joked with the photographer that I wanted to wait until we were officially married to be sure the life insurance policy would go to me, just in case there were any accidents out there (wink wink) That water was REALLY freaking cold by then! But there were no accidents and no drama the whole week. Well other than Myke’s deaf white pit bull escaping the cabin a couple hours before the wedding and managing to roll in what we think was bear scat. OMG she came back quite a stinking, dirty mess but was incredibly proud of herself. LOL.

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Ok I think that sums things up for today – please stay well, healthy and happy out there and I hope to see you soon!