So I had started playing a bit with an app called “Obedience” early in the pandemic and to be honest I wasn’t sure I was thrilled with it initially, but recently I got a new application from slave d in the UK who has got me intrigued enough again to give it another shot. It turns out that the developer has added some features that makes it more fun and useful – like in-app messaging, the ability to send photos, and set up personal “good boy” messages to give a “cookie” to good slaves for completing their tasks. I really like that. 🙂

So my new toy is in chastity as we speak – for the first time ever other than trying on the device. He locked in at 9am this morning and has to stay in the cage for 12 WHOLE HOURS! I thought 12 hours was a good initial test because of course I need to be sure that the cage is fitting properly. Not loose enough to fall off and not overly tight that it could cause damage. I once had a well educated, professional man lock into a cage for a week and the cage abraded him so badly he ended up with a nasty infection – but he didn’t think he needed to let me know that that was happening! Arrrgh! Anyway, when my new toy is permitted release tonight, he must edge himself for at least 20 minutes and then put on a silky pair of panties before going to bed. 🙂 I cannot wait for his next photo!

In the meantime …
Here is an excerpt from a blog post entitled “Time to explore other options gang”, where I first mentioned the app and how fun and useful it can be for distance training.

“I have also just today started playing with an app that allows me to track a submissive’s obedience to my rules and reward or punish them. Check out “Obedience: BDSM Habit Tracker” in your app store. I am going to experiment with it with a hand full of my fave boys before I go further with it, but I think it has fabulous potential for being a fun way to have some kinky fun at a distance!

I am thinking for each of my playmates ideally I’d like to have a few “Healthy Habits” like: exercise, sleep 7 hours a night, drink water, eat healthy meals, do yoga to increase your flexibility for me. <grin> Things that you KNOW you should do but have a hard time sticking with. As well as some “Mistress Chores” like: abstain from wanking, wear sexy panties under your normal clothes, wear a collar to bed, send me a daily journal entry, practice slave positions, or particular bondage pic you love. The possibilities are endless and each person will have assist in the negotiating of the habits so that we can pick things that are really worthwhile to you. Each of the assignments help accrue “Good Boy or Bad Boy” points the can lead to rewards or punishments. Yeah, I am liking this a lot – lol!

Anyway – that’s where I am at today – I sincerely hope you and your loved ones are all staying safe and healthy through these difficult times. Lots of love and hope to see you soon!”