Sorry I have been away so long … Brett was here the week before last for a four day weekend (Thurs evening – Tuesday very early am) and will in fact be here those days on a pretty regular basis as we move into the next phase of our relationship, (which is the slightly more than half the week living together phase).  So far so good by the way.  I think things are going amazingly well between us. I really love the way we are together and several of my dearest friends have commented that they’ve never seen me so happy so they think he is great for me.  He also got the “Leather Clan” seal of approval.

I will admit though that I am still getting the hang of having him here for such long stretches and in some ways it is wonderful because I really enjoy his company!!  <grin> He makes me laugh like all the time because he has such a happy and cheerful spirit.  I also love having such a capable and attentive partner around the house! He is always finding odd chores to take care of for me on top of the “honey do” items I always seem to be throwing at him. About the only drawback so far is that I find myself wanting to spend time with him more than I want to get any work done so I will need to get a bit more focussed on that as time goes on but so far I am managing to keep the bills paid only working part time.

Last week we had a perfect mix of time well spent together! He helped me buy and put together a new cabinet for my “Temple” to store my over abundance of dungeon gear.  After the ensuing major reorganization project I naturally needed to rechristen the playroom and did a fun little scene that began with some fairly mean toe bondage  and evolved into a lovely little predicament that amused the hell out of me! <grin>  We also spent some time with my leather family helping them out with some things as they prepared for a well deserved vacation.  We grocery shopped like a nice normal vanilla couple, snuggled and watched some TV, did yard work together, took a nice drive on Sunday, and even hit an old fashioned ice cream shop for a banana split! How fabulously middle America huh?

Well, we also finished the last evening with me taking him gently but firmly over my lap in bed with a vibrator between us hitting sweet spots for us both, while I commenced to spanking his sweet smooth ass til it glowed hot and pink.  Then I had him kneel at the foot of the bed and stroke himself for my visual entertainment as I pleasured myself with my favorite vibrator. 

Eventually I got out a dildo as well and had him orally work it for me for awhile before I slid it inside myself and made him simply watch as I got more and more turned on.  I have mostly been in relationships as a switch in the past and I am truly enjoying stepping more fully into my dominance with him.  I love that I can be pretty much as kinky as my little heart desires with him and he loves me like crazy for it! 

This most recent weekend was a slightly shorter one but we played some more, shopped some more (this time for a whole new patio set including a waterfall and new barbeque) and made love a lot more but he had to return tonight to LI because he had a special previous engagement with his family.

But he will be back up here Tuesday evening long enough to crash and then hop a flight with me to Denver Wednesday morning! Woohoo Thunder in the Mountains here we come! I have never been to Colorado so I am really looking forward to doing a little sightseeing while we are there!  He has promised to start by taking me hiking in Estes State Park.

I am also going to finally meet my buddy Drew! I met Drew on-line over 10 years ago and we have been friends all this time, spent countless hours on the phone and emailed, exchanged cards and letters and so on for all these years but I am finally going to get to physically hug him and his sweet bride for the first time this coming Friday night.  How wild is that?

Ok that’s enough for tonight .. I am going to go curl up and relax for a bit.. more soon.