After the last few weeks of holiday and other stress filled insanity, my sweetheart Brett felt that I really needed a stress-free, fun and totally relaxing weekend, and he helped deliver one of the sweetest ones I have had in a long time. It started with him showing up Friday morning waking me gently with my favorite tea, an “I luv you” balloon, and a stunning bouquet of roses in pastel colors: pink, coral, yellow, peach & white. I adore roses and waking to the scent filling the room is so wonderful! He said I had not been romanced near enough lately and he intended to correct that. <grin> I do LOVE how romantic (and a tad corny) my sweetie is at times!! 
Next, that wonderful sweet sexy guy of mine crawled into bed with me and proceeded to caress, lick, kiss and make love to me for the next couple of hours. 🙂 Wow! Talk about a stress reliever! There is nothing like a string of multiple orgasms for setting things right again! We eventually had a light lunch, spent some more time snuggling and spent the evening watching a DVD on the 6 foot projection screen in my living room while curled up on the feather mattress eating popcorn under a blanket.
Saturday my sweetie devoted to taking care of a few household projects for me while I relaxed, chipped away at email and basically took it easy all day feeling like the Queen. 🙂 That evening he took me out for a great dinner and then to the mall to see “Paul Blart – Mall Cop” which I really enjoyed because it reminded me of my retail mall days working in the bonsai shop & my mom’s travel agency. Anyway, fun movie with a sweet love story and afterwards we went back home and snuggled up to get warm again.
Sunday after a lazy morning, my sweetie and I slipped off to the Temple for a few hours. It started out with him helping me do some step by step photos of a pictorial cock and ball bondage tutorial I want to write so that folks who take my Binding The Jewels class can have the step by step reminder of “My classic” cock bondage tie.
Then one thing kind of lead to another and the next thing ya know I have him deliciously tied up and at my mercy! 🙂 Mmm I love that part and God I LOVE rope! And ooooh did I mention that I REALLY like my boyfriend in bondage! I tied him up and started to tease him and myself. At one point I laid him on a 6 foot long, foot and a half wide, vinyl covered board that I sometimes use on top of a couple of weight stands for mummification platform. I wrapped a scary around his ankles and tied them (and his wrists) to my suspension frame. I dangled a buzzy toy from the frame as well and used one of my nylons tied to it and held in his teeth to give him some control over positioning and then made him work for his pleasure. 🙂 It was a fabulous work out for him and a really delicious show for me!
Later on I kept him bound as we had sex in several different positions on that same bondage board. 🙂 It totally turns me on on multiple levels to tie up my man and use him for sex. It is often deliciously frustrating for him because he is used to being the one in control of that portion of the sex act and when he is bound and has no use of his hands or is forced to use muscles that he rarely calls on it adds a lot of juice and tension for me. I love when he gets feral and snarly with sexual tension or frustration but he is still held captive in my rope. OMG that is hot! 🙂
I also just love the twist of being the feminine or receptive yin partner who is actually quite in control and “forcing” the yang partner to perform under restraint. I am definitely not putting it into words well enough but I definitely feel it in the moment and it is amazingly hot! I also gave him some really nice cane stripes at some point that afternoon but a lot of the details were lost in a blur of endorphins and sexual frenzy.
Sunday evening was another relax at home watching movies night. We wanted to rest up and get a good night’s sleep because we were heading to Hunter mountain to hit the slopes for a half day on Monday! Wooohooo! I wouldn’t dare to say I am still anything more than a novice on skis but I sure do enjoy swishing down a bunny trail now & then! This was the first time I can honestly say I felt pretty much in control the whole time AND I didn’t fall once getting off the lift! OK well I had one little spill getting off with Brett where we sort of tangled up in a minor miscommunication but other than that one little incident I stayed on my ski clad feet the whole time!
It was Brett’s third day ever on skis so he was still playing it pretty conservatively (smart guy) and mostly staying on the training hill and I only ventured one up from there myself but I had a blast! I liked it so much in fact that I am seriously considering buying a starter package of skis, boots, bindings and poles but Brett is reminding me that my birthday is right around the corner (Jan 26th) and that I am a hard person to shop for because I have a tendency to run out and buy myself things without giving anyone else a chance. 🙂
So yeah we made it home in one piece, he made me a fabulous lamb chop dinner and we snuggled up with another movie and fell asleep together. I am a bit sore today but feeling really happy and well loved as I take it really easy and luxuriate in bed for a late lazy morning relishing the memories of the weekend. I am also really looking forward to seeing my sweetheart again. He had to get back down to Long Island this morning for work but plans to be back up to see me next Friday night. Yayy! I hope you all had a great weekend too and that life is treating you to some wonderful adventures and lots of love as well!
