I had a wonderful Labor Day weekend! Friday I got to spend about 7 hours playing with my favorite 6 year old. It was a beautiful day so we packed a little picnic and went to “Pirate Park” where we ran around, climbed on stuff, played on the swings, threw rocks into the pond and in general had a blast. Afterward we came back to my place and she turned me on to her favorite new show; “I Carly”. It seems like just last week she was falling in love with Dora the Explorer” and the Disney Princess’. They grow so fast huh?
I was pretty wound up after I dropped her off and I hadn’t made plans for the evening since Brett wasn’t coming in Friday night but rather decided to come up Saturday morning instead, so I decided to do one of my midnight runs to Walmart. I sometimes like just wandering around looking at stuff and well these days I do a fair bit of label comparison in the grocery aisles. It seems I have picked up an admirer while doing so because the last couple of times I was shopping this really handsome, muscular and oh so charming hunk of black man has flirted with me, and oh god but he has a dazzling smile! 🙂 Well I guess I flirted back a bit and introduced myself enough to find out his name is Ricky and he claims to be 48 years old and single. It occurred to me that I think he would look fabulous in rope so I handed him a “Shibari Lover” card and told him he should peek at my website.
Wow I guess I really am a pervert if I see an attractive person and immediately picture them not just naked but usually naked in rope huh? Oh well, I guess we’ll see if I hear from him or if he flirts with me when I go there next. I finished the evening off with a 2 mile walk around the neighborhood and then curled up to wait for my sweetheart to arrive.
We spent most of Saturday at home taking care of projects around the house and running errands but we did clear some really sweet time Saturday afternoon for an intensely energetic bit of mostly vanilla sex. 🙂 Yes, yes hell I am not ashamed to admit it… I LOVE good old fashioned vanilla sex now and then! 😀 Maybe I sometimes even appreciate it more because so much of my life revolves around kink that it is almost a welcome change of pace to enjoy those sweetly vanilla “normal” times like playing with a beloved child at a park or going to a movie at the mall or even simply looking deeply into the eyes of someone you love while making love to them and NOT torturing him until he screams while you do it! (Although that’s pretty nice too!)
We had a really nice lunch at the “Olive Garden” where my niece works and on the way back we stopped off to visit my buddy “Motorcycle Mike” and his slave / girlfriend Sheri for a few minutes. It was a short but sweet visit and while we were there Mike invited us out onto his “yacht” the next day. He has a nice lil fishing / speed boat that can comfortably accommodate four people and I haven’t had a chance to get out on the boat with him at all this summer so Brett and I jumped at the opportunity for some fun and sun on the Hudson.
Sunday morning when I opened my eyes the first thing I saw was a beautiful boquet of flowers on my night stand. That sweet guy of mine had gone out to get me some more cream for my tea and brought back flowers as well but I didn’t have a lot of time to admire them. We had to get ready for go meet Mike & Sheri.
It was a wonderful day on the river! The weather was perfect, mostly sunny and warm but not too hot. Mike took us to a great spot and he, Brett and I cast some lines into the water using worms and raw chunks of chicken breast for bait and we all get hits! I caught first fish but it was just a little perch so I tossed it back. Mostly we we getting small to medium size catfish and then Mike caught a really good size cat and offered to let Brett and I keep it! Yum!
We also caught like a half a dozen or more good size frigging eels! Ughh! I had absolutely no idea how truly nasty and slimy those things are or what a pain in the ass it is the try to get the hooks back out of their mouths so you can toss them back! Ewww! Gross! Those nasty suckers would try wrapping around your arm as you held on to them and tried to work the hook back out and then they would be sliding down through your hand pulling the hook dangerously close to your damn thumb! That was definitely an adventure I could have lived without and since I neither Brett nor I had ever cooked an eel before we decided to keep tossing them back for now!
We fished for several hours then cruised up to Athens NY and ate a really nice late lunch early dinner at a lovely little cafe on the river there. Then we fished a little more and headed back in as the sun began to set. We got home, cleaned the fish, hit the shower and crashed almost immediately. Whew what a day!
Monday we relaxed a bit and then later on worked out together at Mike’s and then Brett cooked that catfish Cajun style! It was really delicious!
We also and I began thinking about my packing lists for AIS COPE next weekend! Yayy! I am doing two classes; “Binding the Jewels” which is a hands on class about cock and ball bondage (Mmm a favorite topic!) and “Learning to Fly – Ecstatic Percussion play” where we cover a few of the things I think help to make a scene more special for both parties like a shared intention and energetic connection and then give them an introduction to conscious breath work and how that can help transform pain. I am also planning to attend a few classes that sound really interesting to me and have some fun in the dungeon! Woohoo!
OK that’s enough writing for one day … I need to more around a bit. Hope you like the pics!! Talk soon!
